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#21 dali

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 07:43 AM

I don't like doing anything when I'm hungry. I mean, I like being hungry where your belly tingles and your stomach grumbles. Having sex like that is really good. idk, I feel more in control of myself, and I feel sexier. When I eat I just feel like a fat pig.


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(My dietician has suggested 85kg as my first goal)

 

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#22 skinandboneandblood

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 08:23 AM

I'm too cold and tired most of the time to have sex. I feel awful for my bf, we used to have sex all the time and now we only have it a couple times a month. I just never feel like putting in the effort!

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 09:31 AM

I just have no sex drive anymore. It sucks!


I am right there with ya

#24 shrink-me

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 09:39 AM

My sex life definitely improves when I lose weight. 
I become so much more confident when my stomach doesn't roll over itself a million times.


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#25 Harrow

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 09:40 AM

When I was underweight, my sex drive was absolute zero.

Height: 5'4      HW: 121       CW: Something awful

                       LW: 87         UGW: Man, I don't know. 95 for now.

                            


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Posted 31 May 2013 - 09:48 AM

We all have our rewards/addictions I'd say.

 

When you can't feel good with food or alcohol....LOL....



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Posted 31 May 2013 - 12:04 PM

My sex drive has gone down a bit I reckon. But when I do have it I enjoy it more, and in more comfortable with my body :)
And kisses on the hipbones.... [shivers down spine]

#28 Rafflesia arnoldii

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 12:20 PM

I never liked sex much until I really started restricting hard. When I weighed more, I never ever wanted to take my clothes off, so I didn't. I hit goal weight one, so the sexy time commenced.

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 12:23 PM

My wife and I haven't had sex in 3.5 months. We're both morbidly obese and the last time we tried it was a complete failure, like two walruses trying to have sex. 

 

We're both trying to lose weight and I'm hoping that ana helps me drop enough weight so that all the pieces fit like they are supposed to. 


HW 430lbs

SW 330lbs (52% body fat)

CW 306.6lbs became an ANA

CW 298.4lbs 

CW 294.6lbs (37.8% body fat)

GW1 (by mid june 2013) 290lbs (June 7)

CW: 288.4lbs

GW2 (by august 2013) 270 lbs

GW3 (by new year) 225 lbs

GW4 (easter 2014) 200 lbs

GW5 (mid year 2014) 175 lbs

UGW 150-155 lbs, (end of 2014, BMI 18.3) max muscle definition, minimal body fat

 

Competitions:

Hunger Games Week 1: -12.0lbs, -3.91%, survived

Hunger Games Week 2: -4 lbs -1.36%, survived

Hunger Games Week 3: -5 lbs -1.7% survived

Hunger Games Week 4: pending

June 14 lbs challenge

25 lbs (or lighter!) by September

June Fasting Challenge

June Junk Food Challenge

Knockout Challenge

3 Month Biggest Loser Challenge

 

Fasts since becoming ANA:

 

#1: 24hrs

#2: 1 day 21hrs

#3: 6 days 5 hrs 31 min

#4 2 days 11 hrs

#5 5 days 3 hrs

#6 2 days 

#7 2 days 3 hrs

#8 1 day 6 hrs 30 min

#9 28.5 hrs

#10 34 hrs

 


#30 Gretel_

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 05:09 PM

I'm generally deterred because of paranoia...Like I know you lose some cals but you must GAIN some right?
Too much worry for me :?


HW 50kg

CW 40.0kg

GW1 40kg

GW2 35kg

UGW 30kg


#31 Rafflesia arnoldii

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Posted 31 May 2013 - 05:26 PM

I'm generally deterred because of paranoia...Like I know you lose some cals but you must GAIN some right?
Too much worry for me :?

 

I guess you could gain some if you gained one of those pesky parasites that are sometimes side effects of sex... :rolleyes:

 

Just kidding, children are wonderful...


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#32 rufusmoo

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Posted 01 June 2013 - 01:20 AM

My husband doesn't really want to sleep with me much as he says it highlights how ill I am x



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Posted 01 June 2013 - 03:32 AM

My wife and I haven't had sex in 3.5 months. We're both morbidly obese and the last time we tried it was a complete failure, like two walruses trying to have sex. 

 

We're both trying to lose weight and I'm hoping that ana helps me drop enough weight so that all the pieces fit like they are supposed to. 

Hang in there brother.

 

 

Don't start off with 500 calories.

 

Slowly lower them as the weightloss slows.

 

This will be the most difficult thing you ever do.

 

I know. I cut myself in half!

 

 

 

 

Hang in there brother <3



#34 LLiivatti

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Posted 01 June 2013 - 08:49 AM

I kinda don't have sex drives that much, or maybe with right kinda of guy they'll magically appear, hopefully:D



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Posted 01 June 2013 - 08:54 AM

I kinda don't have sex drives that much, or maybe with right kinda of guy they'll magically appear, hopefully:D

 

 

Yes, I think it is this.  I feel as though sex comes naturally when you're actually in love....    :wub:



#36 selkies-and-stars

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Posted 01 June 2013 - 09:49 AM

My sex drive has shriveled away practically D: Might be partly that way though cause I wasn't that attracted to my now ex. 

Besides that I feel really self conscious naked and can't help wondering what who ever I'm with thinks of my body. I'd love to hide in a massive jumper during it, that would be sexy right?;D


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