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#1 admin

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Posted 18 October 2014 - 09:03 AM

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Hi all - 

 

Another reminder from admin: The sites mantra is "No judging". By implication, this means no bullying too. 

 

I've received a number of distressing reports about members being targeted not only on the forum but by PM as well. Most times this is because they asked for "tips and tricks".

 

While I personally don't like tips and tricks myself, there is no rule prohibiting this (remember, no judging). You can choose to not answer it, or to steer the OP away from needing tips and tricks, BUT, you cannot target this person through insults or threats, or language with the purpose of hurting that person (emotionally, mentally or physically). Again, this doesn't mean you can't make an argument against "tips", but there is a difference between arguments and bullying.

 

I'm asking for anybody who is on the receiving end of threats or who is being bullied to contact the mods and myself, as this will not be tolerated under any circumstances and will result in an immediate ban.

 

Thanks for understanding,

 

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Posted 18 October 2014 - 12:39 PM

This was needed!
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Posted 18 October 2014 - 12:46 PM

Yesss!!!


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Posted 18 October 2014 - 12:49 PM

I couldn't agree more. But maybe now that ADMIN had said it, people will finally stop.
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Posted 18 October 2014 - 01:00 PM

This was needed!


Indeed this was.
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Posted 18 October 2014 - 02:18 PM

This needed to be said.

I think the biggest issue I see is when someone makes a post, and people turn it into a joke and make cruel, snide remarks in trying to be "funny". Guess what? It's not funny.
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Posted 18 October 2014 - 02:21 PM

Can I still post this on "i wanna b ana gimme tipzzz!!1" threads?

 

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Posted 18 October 2014 - 02:44 PM

Thank you Admin!!!



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Posted 27 October 2014 - 03:34 PM

Now where will all the thirsty know-it-all queens go?

I hope they will be okay.
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Posted 27 October 2014 - 03:51 PM

thank you omg. how prideful do we need to be that we can't simply ignore these posts but we must get down their throats about it? great, you have a real ed, you win the prize


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Posted 27 October 2014 - 04:14 PM

Can I still post this on "i wanna b ana gimme tipzzz!!1" threads?

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Lol yeah
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Posted 27 October 2014 - 04:46 PM

this needed to be done a long time ago but hopefully the bullying will stop now!!

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Posted 27 October 2014 - 05:30 PM

thank you omg. how prideful do we need to be that we can't simply ignore these posts but we must get down their throats about it? great, you have a real ed, you win the prize


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Posted 27 October 2014 - 05:52 PM

This is a great thread.

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Posted 27 October 2014 - 08:19 PM

Yay thank you!

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Posted 27 October 2014 - 08:35 PM

Admin is best.

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Posted 27 October 2014 - 09:28 PM

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Posted 27 October 2014 - 09:57 PM

Everyone saying this post was needed and that they love the admin for adding it (which i agree with), but how sad is it that i had to be needed? Like, why couldn't this be common knowledge/common sense?


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Posted 27 October 2014 - 10:34 PM

Yay! Admin for President!!! 


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Posted 27 October 2014 - 11:30 PM

Thx admin, but I think we have kinda learned to be more accepting of the tips or just simply ignore threads like that, but thanks for the reminder! Ad if all else fail just simply say "If you don't like Pro ana sites than don't go on one"


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