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How To Be Pretty Enough To Get A Boyfriend and Be Able To Get A Husband?

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#1 PapaFrankuisBestKpopIdolXD

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Posted 08 June 2018 - 11:14 PM

Please give me advice. I only had one boyfriend in the past and he cheated on me and he now goes around town body shaming me. What do girls have to do to them self to be pretty enough to get men to love them? I'm asking for beauty tips here.


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Posted 08 June 2018 - 11:17 PM

Oh, I don't mean have a boyfriend and husband at the same time. I mean how to get a bf...then later on down the road get married?


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Posted 09 June 2018 - 01:13 AM

I don’t know if this is something you’re looking for, but my boyfriend married me when I was 250 pounds and when I felt very unattractive. He is extremely handsome, kind, and generous, and makes me a better person.

It is horrible your ex did that and is now body shaming you, but that is from his own insecurity. It can be difficult to trust again after an experience like this.

Love will find you, honey. :) <3 No matter your appearance.
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Posted 09 June 2018 - 01:33 AM

Please give me advice. I only had one boyfriend in the past and he cheated on me and he now goes around town body shaming me. What do girls have to do to them self to be pretty enough to get men to love them? I'm asking for beauty tips here.

You have to love yourself first beauty is only temporary but a strong self-esteem to go with it is the clincher. Find a sweet guy not an immature abusive jerk. I wish you luck! Always stand up for yourself and others, don't put up with anyones shit and a great guy will come along soon that loves your fire. Go find your fire.

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Posted 09 June 2018 - 11:28 AM

Basically just be female, dick is abundant and low value
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Posted 09 June 2018 - 02:48 PM

You don’t have to be pretty.
Not gonna lie, it helps. You just have to stay in your lane or settle for someone not as attractive.
As for being more attractive?
Grow hair long. It’s easier to look pretty with long hair rather then short.
Makeup. Not western make up, look into Asian makeup styles like Korean. They tend to be more natural and sweet looking compared to the sexy instragram makeup.
I always try to make my eyes look big and doe-y, when ever I wear circle lenses (contact lenses that are bigger) I always get compliments. Just don’t get any crazy colors, you want to look naturally beautiful.
Other then that, having a good body helps tremendously, at least where I am. Most of my female peers have, as my insensitive aunt calls it. “Already having a mom body”
The difficult thing is finding men you actually like - . -
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Posted 09 June 2018 - 02:54 PM

ok you know how they say 'confidence is sexy'

it's really corny but it's true

 

obviously knowing how to style yourself and wear clothes and makeup that flatter you is important, so experiment because everyone is different. but what matters most is that you're comfortable. not that you love every part of yourself, but that you are confident in the choices you make. sometimes i wear weird stuff, but i feel good and know i look good so nobody can tell me shit. 

 

also just respect yourself. don't take any shit, don't settle, don't change yourself. demand respect and wait for someone who will give it. dating isn't that important, it's better to be alone than with someone who treats you like garbage.


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Posted 10 June 2018 - 07:09 PM

Basically just be female, dick is abundant and low value

 

I wanted more than just "dick" but...your point does make sense...


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Posted 10 June 2018 - 07:12 PM

You don’t have to be pretty.
Not gonna lie, it helps. You just have to stay in your lane or settle for someone not as attractive.
As for being more attractive?
Grow hair long. It’s easier to look pretty with long hair rather then short.
Makeup. Not western make up, look into Asian makeup styles like Korean. They tend to be more natural and sweet looking compared to the sexy instragram makeup.
I always try to make my eyes look big and doe-y, when ever I wear circle lenses (contact lenses that are bigger) I always get compliments. Just don’t get any crazy colors, you want to look naturally beautiful.
Other then that, having a good body helps tremendously, at least where I am. Most of my female peers have, as my insensitive aunt calls it. “Already having a mom body”
The difficult thing is finding men you actually like - . -

 

Working on the body now, even though medically my BMI (18.9) and BF% (20) are already on point. I do already do that makeup style :)  I don't o circle lenses b/c the FDA has banned them, so I'm scared. Are they dangerous at all?

My hair is medium length, but I'm trying to grow it out, currently :)

 

I don't care if the man is attractive by conventional standards or not, just as long as he's nice to me unlike my other one.


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Posted 10 June 2018 - 07:14 PM

I have had similar experiences. Watch a bunch of RuPaul's Drag Race and realize we are all queens deep down. Embrace your inner puss. Feel confident in yourself without boys and men, I mean even RuPaul, the most glamazon human on earth, was their own date this past valentines day. Feel queen for yourself, and when you are ready, let some slithering worm bask in your radiant glamazon puss. Feel the puss deep within your heart. 


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Posted 10 June 2018 - 07:24 PM

Men (assuming they are quality) can get a pretty face and body anywhere. Not everyone wants the conventional pretty girl.

 

I like to think, a pretty face gets them through the door faster. But a great inside has them sit down and want to stay. And attractiveness is such a flexible thing.

 

Be actually healthy, be happier, more worry free. No one wants drama, and stankness. Healthy people (inside and out) have glowing skin, healthy hair. Everyone eats badly nowadays, and doesn't really 'glow' even when they are skinny, so being healthy stands out.

 

I think it's okay to like make-up. No one really has 'ugly' eyes or lips. Those are easy to have stand out.

 

Have healthy hair. Take care of your skin. Wear colors that suit you. Wear clothing that suits you.

 

When you do find a man, hold him to the same standards you hold yourself. Don't settle, if they're obvious trash. You never need a shitty boyfriend more than you need to be a happy individual.

 

So, far we have:

* Take care of yourself

* Be actually healthy

* Make-up is optional

* Wear clothes that are shape-suiting

* But still wear what makes you happy

* Literally, be happy.

 

Remember, anyone can be pretty. Not everyone can back it up with good character, great personality, real substance.

 

:) Hope this makes you feel better, and is beneficial for anyone!


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Posted 10 June 2018 - 07:34 PM

Men (assuming they are quality) can get a pretty face and body anywhere. Not everyone wants the conventional pretty girl.

 

I like to think, a pretty face gets them through the door faster. But a great inside has them sit down and want to stay. And attractiveness is such a flexible thing.

 

Be actually healthy, be happier, more worry free. No one wants drama, and stankness. Healthy people (inside and out) have glowing skin, healthy hair. Everyone eats badly nowadays, and doesn't really 'glow' even when they are skinny, so being healthy stands out.

 

I think it's okay to like make-up. No one really has 'ugly' eyes or lips. Those are easy to have stand out.

 

Have healthy hair. Take care of your skin. Wear colors that suit you. Wear clothing that suits you.

 

When you do find a man, hold him to the same standards you hold yourself. Don't settle, if they're obvious trash. You never need a shitty boyfriend more than you need to be a happy individual.

 

So, far we have:

* Take care of yourself

* Be actually healthy

* Make-up is optional

* Wear clothes that are shape-suiting

* But still wear what makes you happy

* Literally, be happy.

 

Remember, anyone can be pretty. Not everyone can back it up with good character, great personality, real substance.

 

:) Hope this makes you feel better, and is beneficial for anyone!

 

I'm already only eating pure/clean foods, and exercise 19 hours a weeks, and staying hydrated. I hope this helps me be "inside healthy" like you said :)


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Posted 11 June 2018 - 03:58 AM

Some of the most attractive people I know have been cheated on and body shamed. Looking good is not a douchebag filter. It almost seems to be the opposite from what i have seen. Look good for you. 
Finding someone is such a custom fit. Just don't put up with anyone's shit but don't be a mega bitch about it either. Take time to get to know someone and see how they treat others around them. If they do it to someone else, they are likely to do it to you. Expect someone to show you they care rather than falling for words.

 


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Posted 11 June 2018 - 05:00 AM

You don’t want a boyfriend who just wants a pretty girl.
Be a woman of substance and you’ll find a good quality partner who values you as a human being.
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Posted 11 June 2018 - 05:15 AM

Honestly darling, I know you're going to roll your eyes at this because that is exactly what I used to do, but you do not need a relationship to make you feel happy. 

I can honestly say that the best relationships come from two people who are very comfortable with themselves. It gives the relationship a stable basis, and you aren't relying on another person for happiness. Sure, they do make you happy, but they aren't the 'be-all and end-all' of your happiness.

 

I used to be in a very unhealthy relationship. Because I was so insecure, I made him my world, my happiness purely relied on how our relationship was doing. We were both very unstable people, both mentally ill, so when we ended it completely destroyed me. I had never been so depressed in my life. Which shouldn't be normal.

I am now in an amazing relationship because we recognise that we are two, individual, separate people with our own lives. We make each other extremely happy, but we know what is good for each of us, and know how to make ourselves happy. I make sure I spend lots of time with my baby niece and go on lovely walks in the countryside with my dog. I meditate and do yoga. He plays Airsoft and hangs out with his mates a lot. I hope this makes sense!

You will find someone my lovely, give it time. You deserve a long-term, happy relationship.


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Posted 11 June 2018 - 10:49 PM

You don’t want a boyfriend who just wants a pretty girl.
Be a woman of substance and you’ll find a good quality partner who values you as a human being.

 

I want the looks to complement my substance b/c tbh, substance alone got me nowhere.


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Posted 12 June 2018 - 03:59 AM

ya'll gave me nice answers and all but tbh, I'm looking for beauty tips. Thanks though.


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Posted 12 June 2018 - 07:15 AM

ya'll gave me nice answers and all but tbh, I'm looking for beauty tips. Thanks though.


Most men like not too fuzzy outfits and not sticky looking red lips.

So a pair of jeans that suits you well, a kind of sexy top and dulled red lipstick are a good bet.

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Posted 12 June 2018 - 07:17 AM

sorry but why would you want a boyfriend ... ???


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