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#41 Downward.Spiral.Babe

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Posted 17 July 2018 - 05:01 AM

Being able to wear my nice clothes again.
No more waddling or chafing.
Maybe my students will stop making fun of me for being fat (they think I can't understand them when they speak their native language I'm multilingual ffs)
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#42 liberatedLiberator

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Posted 17 July 2018 - 09:49 AM

Feeling the weight of the fat on my legs and belly bouncing and resisting me when I have to run.
Knowing I look like a blimp.
The burning pain in my throat when I run or walk too fast.
Walking to a seat at the back of the bus and my hips brushing against people who are sitting.
Feeling like everyone is judging me all the time.
Not being able to make eye contact with anyone because I'm scared they'll notice me and my size.
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Posted 17 July 2018 - 01:13 PM

I can't wait to be done with:

 

Having to wear a cardigan even in the summer because my upper arms look like damn hams.

Getting winded after taking a flight of stairs.

Inner thigh chafing.


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#44 FatSophie94

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Posted 20 July 2018 - 07:30 PM

Thigh chafing, stretch marks, and double chin.

I absolutely hate those.

I have to hold my phone at this awkward angle when taking photos of myself to look halfway decent. And I can just outright forget looking good in pictures that other people take of me. They almost always take it at an angle that has me looking like I have a "spare tire" around my neck. Yuck.

There's more than a few photos that I've had taken of me with people I'd waited years to meet that I wanted to cry after seeing how bad I looked in the photos.

Also sick of looking like a bunch of sausage links in clothes that are even the least bit snug on me.

Finally, family members making "sound effects" for my footsteps if they see me walking around the house. ...and they wonder why I want to stay in my room all day.

 

I DO have a spare tire around my neck! I bloody hate it! From ear to ear it's just ughhhh


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#45 Zingame

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Posted 20 July 2018 - 07:34 PM

EVERYTHING about my bellybutton.


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Posted 20 July 2018 - 07:52 PM

I’ll be skinnier than my boyfriend finally
No chub rub
Not always so anxious about if I look fat or not
Being able to wear cute clothes without feeling self conscious
Be able to post full body pictures on Instagram
Not getting so tired and hot before everyone else
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#47 OldMaid

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Posted 20 July 2018 - 08:18 PM

Being naked, even alone, is gross.

My side Boob blends in with my fat rolls.

Cankles....

Too heavy to be on top with sex. Boobs too gross to be naked for sex.

Bending over in a dress makes people see way up because I cant grnd normal...

Only being able to wear stretchy pants.

Socks are too tight on ankles.

Napkins in the lap make no sense, they should go on my boob shelf.

Not being able to put feet together and stand up.

People seeing that I really am twice as wide as they are...
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#48 rotting💀

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Posted 20 July 2018 - 10:03 PM

Who else hates hardwood floors and their horrid creaking?
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#49 Brooklynbaby00

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Posted 21 July 2018 - 12:24 AM

Not being able to leave the house without every inch of my body covered- even on the warmest of days


Ugh yess! Definitely a struggle this summer. I’m always wearing so many layers while everyone around me is wearing skimpy clothing!
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#50 intimeforapril

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 02:28 PM

For me it's definitely the already mentioned double chin and the damn exhaustion after going up a flight of stairs...
The latter has been improving thankfully with the daily cardio I do. I'm not going to miss either of these...
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Posted 23 July 2018 - 02:36 PM

Oh boy do I have a list:

 

Boots won't fit my legs

I sweat profusely all the time no matter what

Not being able to run

My bf not being able to lift me up

Can't wear jeans because of fupa

Can't wear jeans because of chub rub/chaffing

Knee cracking

Can't shave my pubes (I mean I don't really care about that but I want to be ABLE to do it)

Double chin makes it impossible to take selfies

Never go swimming for obvious reasons


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Posted 23 July 2018 - 02:52 PM

Having to order mens large T shirts. I like geeky prints and designs, but it'd be nice to fit into a womans ''fitted'' tee just once. Especially as I see so many cool japanese style ones at cons


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#53 RK800

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 02:56 PM

Worn spots in my pants from my thighs rubbing together.


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#54 FitFlower

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 03:33 PM

*Not wearing certain clothes because it's SO MUCH FABRIC!! A maxi dress looks like a damn bed sheet. I'd rather die than wear a big ass poncho. I'm down several sizes but I still stay away from certain outfits. And good luck packing a weekend bag full of bedsheets I call clothes. Oh yeah, tired of folding my undies three times and they still look huge.

*goals: tiny cute undies

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 03:50 PM

*Not wearing certain clothes because it's SO MUCH FABRIC!! A maxi dress looks like a damn bed sheet. I'd rather die than wear a big ass poncho. I'm down several sizes but I still stay away from certain outfits. And good luck packing a weekend bag full of bedsheets I call clothes. Oh yeah, tired of folding my undies three times and they still look huge.

*goals: tiny cute undies

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That's one of my goals, too. I miss being able to wear cute undies! Granny panties just aren't working for me.


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Posted 23 July 2018 - 04:55 PM

Being able to wear shorts without my thighs rubbing together
Being able to wave without my arms flapping
Being able to buy whatever piece of clothing I want without having to think about how horrible it’s going to look on me because things like that look “better on skinny girls”
Being able to actually feel comfortable while having sex instead of feeling like a fat whale (so embarrassing)


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#57 Moonchild_xx

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 06:02 PM

Oooof here we go. What I can't wait to get rid of:

Massive double chin
None of my clothes fitting because I've gained 30 pounds this year alone
Having to wear clothes I don't like/ are weather inappropriate because I have nothing that fits
Being sweaty ALL THE TIME, everywhere
Crotch/ inner thigh sweat, constantly
My huge arms and fat wrists
Not being able to shower or shave easily.
Feeling the pain of new stretch marks forming when I lay down a certain way.
When you see a photo someone took of you.... just no...
Hating being touched/ having sex even though I want it, I'm just disgusted by myself and my partner must be too.
Feeling insecure and depressed in general.

I'm really, really, really done with all of this. I can't stand it anymore. Nothing is worth feeling this badly.
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Posted 23 July 2018 - 06:19 PM

Not being able to flirt with people or even be friendly without getting “that look” the “oh Shit the fatty is hitting on me” look.


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Omfggggg bichhhh I used to be overweight BMI and THIS GUY WOULD GIVE ME THAT LOOK OH MY GOD I KNEW IT WAS A THING



ironically enough he liked a girl who was bigger than me a year afterwards and I died a lil’ inside


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CW: been stuck in the 120s like

UGW: 90 

Maintenance Goal: Staying in the range of the 40kgs (90-105ish lbs). BMI 16 probs the sweet spot.

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I am worthy of abundance in my life. (Just not in regards to fat on my body okay I want that fat-free female figure.)
Opportunities are always attracted to me and I am always presented with them at the right time.
I am worthy of financial security and financial abundance.

 

 

Gave up recovery and the idea of recovering.

 

I'm not so naiive as to believe that reaching my UGW would be ultimate happiness,

but it is so much easier to be sad and underweight than it is to be fat and depressed.


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Posted 23 July 2018 - 06:46 PM

Omfggggg bichhhh I used to be overweight BMI and THIS GUY WOULD GIVE ME THAT LOOK OH MY GOD I KNEW IT WAS A THING



ironically enough he liked a girl who was bigger than me a year afterwards and I died a lil’ inside


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It’s super shitty. I’m sorry that happened
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Posted 23 July 2018 - 08:09 PM

Every visit to doctors not my PCP "are you sure you have non-diabetic hypoglycemia? Are you sure it's not blood sugar spikes? Low blood pressure? I'm not so sure about that... Oh. Wow. That is low. I thought with your weight..." And so much more on that list. Fuck. Off. These are the same problems I had back at 118lbs. Fuck. Right. Off. A. Fucking. Cliff.
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