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#61 horror_girl

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 08:11 PM

Every visit to doctors not my PCP "are you sure you have non-diabetic hypoglycemia? Are you sure it's not blood sugar spikes? Low blood pressure? I'm not so sure about that... Oh. Wow. That is low. I thought with your weight..." And so much more on that list. Fuck. Off. These are the same problems I had back at 118lbs. Fuck. Right. Off. A. Fucking. Cliff.

THIS, this, alllllllll this!

For 4 months I heard ''all your problems are due to your weight''
I had freaking CANCER and they missed it  :angry:  :angry:  :angry:


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#62 bemlor

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Posted 23 July 2018 - 08:17 PM

*Not wearing certain clothes because it's SO MUCH FABRIC!! A maxi dress looks like a damn bed sheet. I'd rather die than wear a big ass poncho. I'm down several sizes but I still stay away from certain outfits. And good luck packing a weekend bag full of bedsheets I call clothes. Oh yeah, tired of folding my undies three times and they still look huge.

*goals: tiny cute undies

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Omgsh yes! I'm going on a trip soon and the me pre-diet would have NEVER been able to fit enough clothes for the trip into a carry-on bag. My clothes just took up SO much room and being self-conscious and needing to bring a sweater/cover-up for every outfit too? Yeah... there was no way that was happening. I *really* can't wait until I'm thin and pakcing everything I need for a weekend trip can easily fit into an overnight bag (tiny shirt, tiny short/pants- NO MORE "sweaters for every day/outift that I'm there") lol


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Posted 24 July 2018 - 04:10 AM

Omgsh yes! I'm going on a trip soon and the me pre-diet would have NEVER been able to fit enough clothes for the trip into a carry-on bag. My clothes just took up SO much room and being self-conscious and needing to bring a sweater/cover-up for every outfit too? Yeah... there was no way that was happening. I *really* can't wait until I'm thin and pakcing everything I need for a weekend trip can easily fit into an overnight bag (tiny shirt, tiny short/pants- NO MORE "sweaters for every day/outift that I'm there") lol


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Posted 24 July 2018 - 11:05 AM

I can relate to a lot of the above but id like to add that

I feel ashamed of my pussy fat (venus mountain? Lol idk how its called in english) once an ex of mine grabbed it really hard and said something like "look all this fatty pussy" and I was petrified and still haunts me.
Also not being able to see my genitals because of my belly
All kinds of sweat and chub rubb
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#65 Jekyll & Hyde

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Posted 24 July 2018 - 03:49 PM

Ok I'mma get way too honest with you guys here on mine:

 

- no more boob sweat constantly and stinky boobs at the end of the day because my cleavage never gets any fresh air when I have a bra on

- no more all my jeans exploding in the thighs when they're only a few months old

- no more vagina stank at the end of the day because I'm always hot and sweaty in that area and its all always rubbing together. I swear I shower twice a fucking day and all it takes is a trip to the shops and it's back.

- having sex again. It's been four motherfucking years since I last had sex. Four years. I'm 31 years old and I've been single and sexless for four years. And in that time I've gained probably 70 pounds. FML.

- no more bingo wings. My upper arms are freaking enormous. 

- no more looking like a whale with a human head in photos. I hate photos. Photos can die.

- Not having to shop in the Plus section. Ahhhh, its the dream!


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#66 Pdschiz

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Posted 24 July 2018 - 07:48 PM

Thigh chaffing even in jeans oh boy
Also this is specific bc im a trans man but my weight makes me look very curvy and feminine which triggers my dysphoria so if i loose my weight again to my LW or lower i look more like a man! Gotta hate my bulimia :))
Oh and stop looking pregnant bc so much weight is on my belly which just looks like a balloon?? Idk lmao
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Posted 24 July 2018 - 10:19 PM

Ok I'mma get way too honest with you guys here on mine:

 

- no more boob sweat constantly and stinky boobs at the end of the day because my cleavage never gets any fresh air when I have a bra on

- no more all my jeans exploding in the thighs when they're only a few months old

- no more vagina stank at the end of the day because I'm always hot and sweaty in that area and its all always rubbing together. I swear I shower twice a fucking day and all it takes is a trip to the shops and it's back.

- having sex again. It's been four motherfucking years since I last had sex. Four years. I'm 31 years old and I've been single and sexless for four years. And in that time I've gained probably 70 pounds. FML.

- no more bingo wings. My upper arms are freaking enormous. 

- no more looking like a whale with a human head in photos. I hate photos. Photos can die.

- Not having to shop in the Plus section. Ahhhh, its the dream!

 

lmao i hope this isnt nasty but i actually like the smell of my boob sweat!!

 

im excited to not be in the american statistic of the large amount of obese/overweight people. i just want to be normal and feel normal ffs.



#68 featherstone

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Posted 25 July 2018 - 09:42 AM

Stomach fat bulge when sitting (also I'm 40% sure some stranger made a comment about mine yesterday and I'm dyinnnnnngggg)


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Posted 25 July 2018 - 07:45 PM

as a transmasc nb:

 

not getting instantly clocked because of my huge hips and chest

being able to wear a binder and have it actually work

my face not being so freaking round

muscle definition

 

just in general:

 

old clothes fitting

chafing, i HATE it

chubby forearms are just gross and upper arms are worse

no more cringing whenever i see a photo

not being the fat sibling. someone else can have a turn

"because of your weight, we need to check you cholesterol--" screw you, my levels are completely normal.


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#70 cherryblossomgirlx

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Posted 25 July 2018 - 07:49 PM

*my thighs rub

*I sweat when stationary

*I lose my breathe while going up the stairs

*dark inner thighs & pits

 

being overweight is not fun, I'm loving the positives from losing this weight

24 pounds down and now I can exercise without feeling like Im gonna pass out woohooo


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#71 Silverlily

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Posted 25 July 2018 - 09:31 PM

THIS, this, alllllllll this!

For 4 months I heard ''all your problems are due to your weight''
I had freaking CANCER and they missed it :angry: :angry: :angry:

Same, ended up having a cancerous cyst the size of a cantaloupe. Have always hated doctor's for this reason.

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Posted 25 July 2018 - 10:08 PM

clothes dont fit you like they used to in stores and end up feeling sick and obese the rest of the day. I hate going to the mall.


 

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#73 wasnot

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Posted 26 July 2018 - 05:44 AM

Being treated like an un-person.

That is the worst.

I am not lazy and slothful and gluttonous despite the stereotypes. I do have ambitions and I do think about things other than food, dammit.
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Posted 26 July 2018 - 06:26 AM

When I run or jump and you can hear my fat smacking my skin with the bounce.

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Posted 26 July 2018 - 09:27 AM

Same, ended up having a cancerous cyst the size of a cantaloupe. Have always hated doctor's for this reason.

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Mine was 12 inches across, contained 7 liters of fluid, about the size of an American Football in length, but was roughly spherical. It had a cancerous tumour inside that my body was trying to contain. It got so big that it crushed my internal organs causing breathing difficulties, kidney failure and jaundice. Doctors told me for 4 months, that my problems were ''just fat'' and by the time it was diagnosed by complete accident, I was close to death.

I went into the hospital on Friday weighing 98KG...and came out on Monday weighing 70KG. I'm NEVER giving them that option of saying I'm JUST FAT ever again. I can imagine that you feel in a similar situation. <3


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Posted 26 July 2018 - 10:10 AM

Not being able to buy new clothes that aren't leggings.

Being afraid to be close to anyone/socialize.

Being labeled as lazy, just because I am overweight.

Being the "chubby, fun" friend and not taken seriously.

Being uncomfortable in my own skin.


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Posted 26 July 2018 - 10:38 AM

i can't get on roller coasters anymore, the last time i did i was 260-ish and i am about 40lbs heavier now and it was truggle getting on at 260 and it makes me so sad because i cant do stuff with my friends anymore because they want to go to carowinds and stuff and im too fat, also when i sit three to a seat in a cafr i get so squished because i'm so fat



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Posted 26 July 2018 - 03:33 PM

Having a hard time getting buckled into a roller coaster and getting it to “click”
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Posted 26 July 2018 - 03:37 PM

I'm sorry to hear about peoples coaster troubles. I used to work at a theme park, and although I *hate* coasters, I'm so sad for people that can't ride when they really want to.

One 'mini coaster' at the park has an 'over the head' style harness and no seat (you're supposed to be flying), and one worker had to kindly and gently tell me that I might not be able to ride because of my very large breasts. I felt about 8 inches tall that day


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Posted 27 July 2018 - 12:30 AM

I hate having tan lines caused by underboob :/


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HW ~ 189 lbs / 85.7 kg
ALW ~ 144 lbs

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GW ~ 145 lbs
UGW ~ 110 lbs
Height ~ 5’10.5” / 179cm


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