My fiance (dating for 7 years) found out about my history of anorexia a year into our relationship - I told him blackout drunk in college while heaving my guts into a toilet. Classy, I know.
We moved in together and I relapsed about 2 years ago and went back to professional help. He spoke to my therapist who told him we should not have a scale in our home. He goes away regularly on business trips so he worries about my eating. Around that time, he found my hidden scale and hid it again. It's taken me over a year to convince him I can use it in moderation, (literally the past month or so) which I most likely am not.
Curious to see if others live with their partner or SO or are just in a serious relationship and how they juggle their ED (and purposefully fucking up recovery like yours truly).