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In ur thirties ....

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#1 Oyster.kisses


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Posted 09 December 2020 - 06:48 AM

Name some positive and negative things about ur 30s....

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Posted 09 December 2020 - 07:01 AM

Pro is greater financial stability
Con is I need to eat more to maintain said financial stability (even as my metabolism slows down)

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Posted 09 December 2020 - 09:12 AM

Pro, you know yourself and take less shit

Con, it's harder to hit the restart button if/when you fuck up

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Posted 09 December 2020 - 07:05 PM

Pro: wayyyyy hotter now than in my 20s

Con: Botox is expensive
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Posted 09 December 2020 - 07:29 PM

Tanks for the link! 

pro: more wisdom and confidence


con: more consequences to pay when I let loose (shouldn’t you know better now ma’am?)

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Posted 09 December 2020 - 10:16 PM


Negative- headaches
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Posted 16 December 2020 - 03:43 PM


I understand myself and others better. I know how to recognize and get away from toxic people faster. 

University/college out of the way

Not caring what others think 

Knowing how to cook 

Decorating your own place however you like 

Truly enjoying your own company and not caring about popularity



Slowed metabolism 

Wrinkles starting (although nowadays this isn't nearly as much of an issue as my moms generation as we have botox and better skincare) 


Honestly I think it's a fair trade off, especially with all the beauty and diet products now at our disposal. 30's are not that old after all ! 

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Posted 16 December 2020 - 03:59 PM

pro: I don't have to live with my family anymore. I have my own place that is neat and clean

con: losing weight is seriously harder. I maintained 47 kg easily when I was young. Now if I am not careful I gain 10 kg in a second (you might think that is an overstatement. It. is. not.)

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Posted 30 June 2021 - 02:57 PM

Pro: $
Con: Slow as shit metabolism

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Posted 30 June 2021 - 09:03 PM

Pro: I finally know what I want.
Con: Takes more effort to get it

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Posted 09 August 2021 - 07:49 PM

pro- um i know what i like sexually better, confidence going out


cons-slower metabolism, thinning hair, work issues..

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Posted 10 August 2021 - 10:34 AM

I have 2 under 2 thats a positive. I am finally feeling settled. I am a SAHM which is what is best for me. I am having an easier time with my bpd, staying on track and not gaining.  ooh negative. I am so tired and i cant exercise like i used to. 

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