Ah I feel that. My mum said I looked great at christmas this year, after losing weight. Like she isn't concerned at all about me losing weight. Not sure how much I would have to lose for her to be be concerned. Weight loss is just really considered positiv in my family and sometimes it triggers me more.
Yeah it makes me feel like maybe there isn't anything wrong with being like this on some level despite how messed up my head is 🙄