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#1 DistressedOrange

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:08 PM

This may be a really weird thought but I've always wanted to do this. In reality it would probably be toxic but if they're OK with it and were going to do it anyway why not ya know?

Bulimia is very lonely and I'd love to be able to just sit and binge with someone. Ideally we'd get a huge amount of takeaway, plus other things, and we'd be in an air bnb with 2 bathrooms lol and choose a show to watch and just eat together. Then at the end we'd force each other to replenish electrolytes and hydrate and it'd be wholesome

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:10 PM

I only know one bulimic girl irl

 

I would totally be down to do it with her (haha double meaning) but how would you even ask about that? Anyways she goes to therapy and I don't know it is ed related. I would feel bad if I made it worse. 

 

But in theory omg yes. 


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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:13 PM

I only know one bulimic girl irl
 
I would totally be down to do it with her (haha double meaning) but how would you even ask about that? Anyways she goes to therapy and I don't know it it is ed related. I would feel bad if I made it worse. 
 
But in theory omg yes.


I would b/p with you because ILY <3 you're one of my faves on here

Also oof, I know this one recovered anorexic girl and I have a massive crush on her and we used to be pretty great friends but then after I lost a bunch of weight she started distancing herself from me because she said I triggered her. It was not a fun time

 

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:20 PM

I would b/p with you because ILY <3 you're one of my faves on here

Also oof, I know this one recovered anorexic girl and I have a massive crush on her and we used to be pretty great friends but then after I lost a bunch of weight she started distancing herself from me because she said I triggered her. It was not a fun time

 

"I would b/p with you" is one of the stranger compliments I have gotten, but thank you! I would b/p with you too <3

 

I am sorry to hear about your crush, hopefully she is doing better now? Relationships between people with EDs could be risky anyways tho


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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:43 PM

This may be a really weird thought but I've always wanted to do this. In reality it would probably be toxic but if they're OK with it and were going to do it anyway why not ya know?

Bulimia is very lonely and I'd love to be able to just sit and binge with someone. Ideally we'd get a huge amount of takeaway, plus other things, and we'd be in an air bnb with 2 bathrooms lol and choose a show to watch and just eat together. Then at the end we'd force each other to replenish electrolytes and hydrate and it'd be wholesome

Just me??

 

not just you. I've definitely thought about this too. I always thought it would be nice to have a bulimic friend who knew what I was going through and wouldn't find me gross and who I could binge with (even though I agree it would probably ultimately be a pretty toxic friendship to enable each other like that)


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Posted 08 May 2021 - 01:55 PM

LOL ya i know some people who live in a house with other bulimics and they get together to b/p every night. They don’t find it toxic but more like the ability to socialize without the stress

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 02:37 PM

This may be a really weird thought but I've always wanted to do this. In reality it would probably be toxic but if they're OK with it and were going to do it anyway why not ya know?

Bulimia is very lonely and I'd love to be able to just sit and binge with someone. Ideally we'd get a huge amount of takeaway, plus other things, and we'd be in an air bnb with 2 bathrooms lol and choose a show to watch and just eat together. Then at the end we'd force each other to replenish electrolytes and hydrate and it'd be wholesome

Just me??

 

i've thought about this too. but apparently it happens. or at least used to happen. there is this channel Of Herbs and Altars where she talks about early 2000s proana meetups and in the video she talks about how they would go to candy stores and buy bags and bags of candy to puke.

 


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Posted 08 May 2021 - 07:17 PM

Me and my friend did this. We watched each others backs in the public restrooms and ate tons of food, but we are both trying to slowly recover.


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Posted 08 May 2021 - 09:00 PM

ngl this sounds like the life, unfortunately i dont know anyone irl with an ed, but honestly i feel like it would be kind of nice to have someone to relate to and talk to abt everything. but yea just watching shows and b/p'ing together sounds fun (srry if i sound toxic lmao)
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Posted 08 May 2021 - 09:44 PM

I feel really bad about this but when I was younger I had a best friend who had severe B.E.D I loved going to eat with her we’d get massive meals then donuts or some types of desserts after then always have more snacks when we got home..... I was purging everything and she just ate that way everyday

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 10:14 PM

I've tought about it but idk.. Not sure if it would be my kind of thing

I'm very reclusive while b/ping but I guess I might try it out if I knew another bulimic irl that I could talk to 



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Posted 09 May 2021 - 05:52 AM

unashamed to say i'd do it.

 

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Posted 09 May 2021 - 06:40 AM

unashamed to say i'd do it.

uk people who are serious can hit me up

whereabouts in uk are you from? i’m totally down

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Posted 09 May 2021 - 06:45 AM

Hmm.. I usually b/p in secret from the sheer embarrassment but if it was the norm(?) of a social gathering then maybe I wouldn't mind partaking? 


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Posted 09 May 2021 - 07:12 AM

I don't know if I would want a friend to do it with. Could I have a person to meet up with no and again to b/p? Maybe.

But really, I'd feel uncomfortable because I don't want to enable or support this kind of behavior. I can destroy my own body and life but I won't be a part of someone else
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Posted 09 May 2021 - 09:16 AM

unashamed to say i'd do it.
 
uk people who are serious can hit me up


I'm UK too, pm with vague location lol we can vibe once I'm out of ip

 

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Posted 09 May 2021 - 09:23 AM

I definitely would love to have some company. I've had a few friends or people I've known with ED's but I don't know any of the details and most have recovered (and moreover, they think have recovered) so I really can't ask them to do that, they'd probably think I was crazy. But in theory, this would make it a LOT less isolating experience 



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Posted 09 May 2021 - 10:10 AM

I have a good friend who is also bulimic. We talk about it a lot, especially about when we were at our sickest. It is super triggering for both of us so we don't talk about it as much anymore. I'm kind of a shy puker, like if I know someone can hear me or if the pressure is on to get something up fast my gag reflex freezes and I can't purge at all. Like bulimic stage fright. How humiliating would it be to binge massive amounts of food with another bulimic then not be able to purge while they vomit up all the calories and crap we ate. 



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Posted 09 May 2021 - 11:33 AM

I wouldn't want to b/p in front of another person, because eating in front of people freaks me out and I'd probably die if anyone saw me purging lol. but buying binge food with someone else or visiting afterwards or just having someone who understands would be fun. 


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Posted 09 May 2021 - 04:44 PM

I wouldn't want to b/p in front of another person, because eating in front of people freaks me out and I'd probably die if anyone saw me purging lol. but buying binge food with someone else or visiting afterwards or just having someone who understands would be fun.

yeah! I'd love to discuss our junk food in tescos 😂 'whatcha buying?' God I'm so alone. I'll just wave across the chanel. We can see the isle of man from here. Its half wayyyyy lmao
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