Posted 15 September 2021 - 09:55 AM
I feel you. When my fiancé & I met, I was 110 pounds & 105 when we got together. I am now 84. I feel like I have less desire for sex now than when I weighed more. (Do not get me wrong, I still have a sex drive. But, instead of sex every day-sometimes multiple times per day, it is sex 4-6 days per week now.) I am very self-concious of how I look naked. But, he is very reassuring. He always tells me that I am "thin & beautiful". We mostly have sex in the dark. That does make me feel better. But, anytime he touches me anywhere I feel fat, I get uncomfortable. He is always feeling up my ribs (likes to count them), spine, & hip bones. That sort of makes me feel good. The lower my weight is, the more confident & comfortable I feel.
Artist & Blue-Collar "Jack of All Trades"
Getting Married this November. <3
High Weight: 125 lbs.
High Weight BMI: 20.1
Low Weight: 82 lbs.
Current Weight: 87 lbs.
Current BMI: 14.0
Goal Weight #1: 85 lbs.
Goal Weight #2: 80 lbs.
Goal Weight #3: 75 lbs.
Ultimate Goal Weight: 70 lbs.
Ultimate Goal BMI: 11.3
"You can never be too rich or too thin."