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#41 km2002

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 01:41 PM

Yes. When you have like dim lights, your body will look the best. And also when you move more during sex, they won't have time to look at you too much because you'll constantly be moving

Constant moving=Wild Sex=Best angles of your body= a lot of burned calories


i might sound crazy but i feel like certain colored lights make me look slimmer ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ like warmer tones like a soft orange rather than cool tones like purple or blue
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#42 anastasiasofie

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 01:45 PM

I totally agree !! My go to is like to get a good spray tan first and then deep dark orange lightening. Looks like I just shed 20 pounds in a day
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#43 georgiiia

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 09:45 PM

honestly covering myself w a blanket is all i need

 okay so fr ive tried this and i just feel like im wearing a cape while riding a horse and all i can see is 

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is there a more attractive method to doing this ahahahah pls help 


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#44 Elene_abc

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 09:50 PM

Doesnโ€™t seem that severe if youโ€™re still sexually active

Congratulations, you're the ultimately perfect anorexic, do you want a trophy for that? /s

We're all struggling here, no need to invalidate people and make them feel like their disorder is not serious enough. Everyone has different symptoms and some never fully lose their sex drive or periods even when they're very underweight.

An addiction is an addiction. It always hurts the same.

#45 Elene_abc

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 09:52 PM

I totally agree !! My go to is like to get a good spray tan first and then deep dark orange lightening. Looks like I just shed 20 pounds in a day


Omg I could kiss u rn thank you

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 10:01 PM

I wouldnยดt know, no one wants to sex me xD


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#47 anastasiasofie

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Posted 08 September 2021 - 10:22 PM

Omg I could kiss u rn thank you


Hehe, just kiss the guy/girl/them ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ and have fuuuuun

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#48 km2002

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Posted 09 September 2021 - 08:00 PM

okay so fr ive tried this and i just feel like im wearing a cape while riding a horse and all i can see is
napoleon-on-st-bernhard.jpg
is there a more attractive method to doing this ahahahah pls help


i cover both of us with a blanket HAHA
also why is george washington kinda seggsi๐Ÿคค๐Ÿคค๐Ÿคค
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Posted 09 September 2021 - 09:13 PM

i cover both of us with a blanket HAHA
also why is george washington kinda seggsi

that's not george washington


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#50 aloof!

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Posted 09 September 2021 - 09:34 PM

All day everyday! burns calories

Just don't forget the enema this time

this made me laugh out loud omfg

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#51 km2002

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Posted 09 September 2021 - 09:52 PM

that's not george washington


ik itโ€™s napoleon i was joking omg
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#52 georgiiia

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Posted 10 September 2021 - 02:57 AM

ik itโ€™s napoleon i was joking omg

 

 

i cover both of us with a blanket HAHA
also why is george washington kinda seggsi

 

i'd show george washington my napoleon impression any day of the week


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#53 Elene_abc

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Posted 10 September 2021 - 03:00 AM

Omggg napo is seg c asf with that blanket or whatever he's wearing๐Ÿฅฐ

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Posted 10 September 2021 - 06:29 AM

Omggg napo is seg c asf with that blanket or whatever he's wearing๐Ÿฅฐ


colonize me asf napoleon ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿฆฏ
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Posted 10 September 2021 - 06:36 AM

I was extremely sexually insecure , because of my insecurites about my body and what not. But due to being together with my SO for years, I've slowly become more comfortable. Accept your insecurites and give yourself the time and patience to develop trust ,  it may take years like it did for me but now I have better sex than ever before.


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Posted 15 September 2021 - 09:55 AM

I feel you. When my fiancรฉ & I met, I was 110 pounds & 105 when we got together. I am now 84. I feel like I have less desire for sex now than when I weighed more. (Do not get me wrong, I still have a sex drive. But, instead of sex every day-sometimes multiple times per day, it is sex 4-6 days per week now.) I am very self-concious of how I look naked. But, he is very reassuring. He always tells me that I am "thin & beautiful". We mostly have sex in the dark. That does make me feel better. But, anytime he touches me anywhere I feel fat, I get uncomfortable. He is always feeling up my ribs (likes to count them), spine, & hip bones. That sort of makes me feel good. The lower my weight is, the more confident & comfortable I feel. 


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#57 km2002

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Posted 15 September 2021 - 11:15 AM

I feel you. When my fiancรฉ & I met, I was 110 pounds & 105 when we got together. I am now 84. I feel like I have less desire for sex now than when I weighed more. (Do not get me wrong, I still have a sex drive. But, instead of sex every day-sometimes multiple times per day, it is sex 4-6 days per week now.) I am very self-concious of how I look naked. But, he is very reassuring. He always tells me that I am "thin & beautiful". We mostly have sex in the dark. That does make me feel better. But, anytime he touches me anywhere I feel fat, I get uncomfortable. He is always feeling up my ribs (likes to count them), spine, & hip bones. That sort of makes me feel good. The lower my weight is, the more confident & comfortable I feel.


do u know if ur SO is into skinny people? just curious haha
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Posted 15 September 2021 - 12:53 PM

My body is basically the only thing I think about during sex. :D I like to turn off the lights and wrap myself into a blanket and still feel ugly. My BF likes to watch me but it makes me so insecure.
When I was my LW the sex was awesome and I really just wanted to show off my body. I need to get back there.


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Posted 15 September 2021 - 03:02 PM

do u know if ur SO is into skinny people? just curious haha


Yeah, he defenitely is. I think he is physically attracted to the physical side of it, but worried like hell about the health side.

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Posted 15 September 2021 - 03:06 PM

My god, yes the whole time!


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