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How thin/fat is your mom? How do you feel about that?

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#61 Mama Gay

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 03:07 PM

My mom looks like Skelator. She's been bulimic and alcoholic since before I was even born, so. She goes through periods of "recovery" where she'll gain weight, but usually she looks like a skeletal old woman. It's been so much worse lately. I hate seeing pictures of her on Facebook. I'm so jealous of her, even though my mom is a horrible person and NOT what I should be striving to be.



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Posted 20 October 2015 - 03:10 PM

my mum is an ex model. 5'10 or 5'11 and weighs 54 kg.


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Posted 20 October 2015 - 03:13 PM

She's big, always has been. She tries so hard to lose but doesn't quite hack it, blames it on thyroid.
I love her the way she is though. Always beautiful to me no matter what she weighs.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 03:14 PM

my mom was always overweight but over the past year shes lost like half her weight and shes on the heavier side of normal.. im proud of her for getting healthy and i know shes doing it the right way and i admire her for that!

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 03:17 PM

My mom is a bit chubby, I guess. She's an inch shorter than me but she talks about getting under 150, and I'm like oh god, I'll never catch up to her. She's maintaining at maybe 160 (she's 5'8"), and I am so jealous. 


Weirdly enough, she calls me "her inspiration" and she's "so proud of me."


Naturally she's managed to forget that I was in treatment for an ED before, and she hasn't put together the notion that I'm doing it again.


So yeah, there's some competition between me and her - at least on my side. I want so badly to be thinner than her.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 04:22 PM

My mom is fairly overweight, and I'm terrified I'm going to end up like her. Her boobs rest on her stomach, yet she still has a thigh gap, because she stores all of her weight in her stomach.

She's always telling me how thin she was in high school, and how people asked if she was going to be a model. It's so fucking triggering.....
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Posted 20 October 2015 - 05:22 PM

My mom's the same height as me but she's 20 pounds lighter. She eats whatever she wants and she's sedentary and has always been skinny her entire life without trying because she never overeats and doesn't have a big appetite and gets bored of something after a few bites. I know she doesn't have an ED and I'm so used to her being skinny it doesn't trigger me at all.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 05:34 PM

My mom is shorter than me by four inches and weighs around 155-165 lbs. She's close to her own high weight, after she had her last child. She buys diet foods, and complains that she wants to lose her belly, but she doesn't have the energy to care that much. She works a demanding job as an ER nurse and she has to pick up extra shifts all the time because my dad doesn't make very much money. I swear though, if she just cut out ice cream she'd drop ten lbs. Its so gross how much ice cream she eats but that might just be me, I've never been a huge fan of ice cream.

When I was at my high weight, my first goal was to be thinner than her. I passed that up pretty easily, and now she weighs a good thirty or forty pounds more than me and wears pants five sizes bigger.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 05:38 PM

My mom is around 5'6"-5'7" and weighs around 140lbs. Not bad for someone who has had 3 kids. She never had a problem with weight in the past and never had an ED

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 06:24 PM

obese and about 300lbs :( it has always made me worry for her health. not that im any better :(

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 06:27 PM

She's overweight and always complaining about it and calling herself fat. She had an ED as a teen but now is a crash dieter and binge eater

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 06:32 PM

My mum is thin, and beautiful, but also a recovering anorexic.



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Posted 20 October 2015 - 06:41 PM

My mom is a bit big (like 160?) but she's my mom and I honestly like my mom fluffy ♡ as far as I know from everything she's (or anyone in my family) has ever had an ED of any kind 0..0 (maybe I should feel blessed or cursed?)
I feel like my mom (only an inch taller than me) is perfect how she is coz I don't want a nasty looking mom all drained and skinny lol she always calls me skinny and I just love my mom ♡ she lets me live my own life and doesn't pick at me anymore like back in the day. I have no qualms ♡♡♡ except when she tries to entice me with Skittles >_>> lol

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 06:57 PM

My mom is usually around 120-130 pounds, the same as or a little less than my set point, and she's three inches shorter. She's pretty thin looking COMPARED to other women in their 40's. But she always comments on how I have a nice willowy shape and she is broad. It makes me feel awkward.9
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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:04 PM

When I picture her I think she might be fat or slightly overweight but idk because I have no contact with my biological mother can't remember what she looks like honestly she was a piece of shit anyway

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:11 PM

My mom is 5'5, and weighs 162 I believe. The weight looks surprisingly good on her as she fairly toned and muscular (she's Caribbean and stores most of her fat in her butt and tits). She has a very coke-bottle esque shape and is constantly getting hit on whenever we're out together. Even still, she was faaaar thinner when she was my age, often telling me that she didn't gain weight until she was pregnant with me. -_-


She loses and gains all the time through dieting and exercise. Seriously, that woman lives at the gym! Her goal weight is to be back in the 140s. 


And to be honest? I don't want to look like her. She's a gym-rat, and I'm not. I like cardio, but that's seriously it. Not to mention, 162 would look horrid on my small frame. Just thinking about it makes me ill...


While she's trying to get back to the 140s, I'm trying to get back to the 120s and maybe even smaller. We look alike and although we love each's obvious we're very competitive.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:11 PM

I don't think she's overweight really, i mean maybe a little but not too bad. Probably close to the high end of healthy. But she also doesn't eat all day and just has dinner, and when I was younger she'd tell me I needed to lose weight. I mean I did, but like you don't tell that to a 5th grader unless they're REALLY overweight. I was at the high end of healthy, maybe going over by like 5 lbs or something at my highest BMI. Honestly, it probably would have filled out by now had I not gone into a weird binge cycle where I'd eat a shit ton after school and then on the weekends I'd eat normally. Now my self esteem is fucked over and I just want to be a skinny kid by senior year because of what my mom said. So I guess I don't really want to compete with her because there's not much to compete with. I'm really just competing with myself and my twisted ideals and trying to see how long it will take me to get there.



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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:13 PM

My dad and his fiancé have been eating healthy and dieting for over a year now. His fiancé looks awesome, she's really pretty and skinny. I'm jealous of her hip bones. I kinda use her as motivation. I want to get skinnier than her.

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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:14 PM

My mom is overweight. She doesn't take care of herself and doesn't take anyone's advice. I feel no pity; I am apathetic. 





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Posted 20 October 2015 - 07:17 PM

Mine is obese and I'm mostly worried about her health

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