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#2621 Rainbow_sparkle

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Posted 28 April 2021 - 09:24 AM

I got weighed at the doctors and weighed a lot less than I thought. When I told my boyfriend he said he hadn’t really noticed I’d lost weight. Of course now I have to lose enough that he notices. I’m already underweight smh.


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Posted 28 April 2021 - 09:26 AM

I have a BMI of 25... I know, I know. Recently my dad has gone on a crusade against eating because I'm back in quarantine. Here are some of the things he has said in the past 4 weeks

 

"If you keep eating like that, you will be 300 lbs"

" All you do is go to the fridge, I bet you're not even going to class, just eating"

"she's too fat" (while talking about someone who is wayyy skinnier than me)

"You look like your mother" (she's is quite overweight)

"you could use the exercise"

"You're too fat for your age"

"You don't need that"

"Stop fucking eating"



#2623 ❤︎seren❤︎

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Posted 28 April 2021 - 09:53 AM

My dad's friend said to me "You've gotten...big." My worst nightmare.


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#2624 safeway

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Posted 28 April 2021 - 10:05 AM

Certain people who know me a little more sometimes call me "small" or comment on "how small I've gotten". I feel like they say that because they know about my "weird eating habits" and want to console me. I feel that they are lying and just trying to make me feel better, because I know for a fact that I am not small, I am very average in size. When they say this stuff, it makes me try and restrict more because I feel like I have to try even harder to get actually small. 


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#2625 amaziated

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Posted 29 April 2021 - 06:37 AM

Remember when my ex told me that I have a nice body. We met online and I was so happy that he liked it, I had been so nervous for him to see my body. But then later he said something about those gross 100 kg-women who does not take care of themselves. I was 98 kg.


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Posted 03 May 2021 - 11:25 PM

I'm sitting at a restaurant with a group of my friends( mind you who are all at least 100 lbs lighter than me). One asks why we can never finish the food we get and the other says because we're all skinny girls. And I immediately wanted die

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Posted 04 May 2021 - 03:39 AM

My housemate, and at the time best friend, encouraging me to gym and be healthy with her (she was an ex professional swimmer) not realising comments like "soon you'll be able to fit all my nice clothes!" was triggering.

Sad to say it reaaaalllyyyy worked and I lost the most while living with her, she didnt know I wasn't well and thought I was just enjoying having a gym buddy!
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#2628 CherryGreen

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Posted 04 May 2021 - 06:37 AM

My psychiatric nurse when I told her I can't stop eating because my medication at the time was making me hungry 24/7:

"Maybe you should just think about the food as a fuel."

That one hit hard since 5years earlier I lived on 500kcal a day.

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The lower I get the higher I'll climb

And I will wonder why
I got dark only to shine
Looking for the golden light

Oh, it's a reasonable sacrifice

Burn, burn, burn bright"


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#2629 maramara

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Posted 04 May 2021 - 05:22 PM

“You’re going to meet my ex wife in one month. So don’t plateau.” I think he was joking but now I’m going to starve for a month. He also always tells me how skinny she is. Like I can’t breathe. I’m such a fat piece of shit. He’s right. He even told me it was better when I was weighing all of my food. I went into an alcohol relapse and stopped CICO. And he’s telling me I need to start again. All I can think is “I can do this. Skinny or die.” I’m such a failure. I have to do this. For me.


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#2630 maramara

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Posted 04 May 2021 - 05:22 PM

“You’re going to meet my ex wife in one month. So don’t plateau.” I think he was joking but now I’m going to starve for a month. He also always tells me how skinny she is. Like I can’t breathe. I’m such a fat piece of shit. He’s right. He even told me it was better when I was weighing all of my food. I went into an alcohol relapse and stopped CICO. And he’s telling me I need to start again. All I can think is “I can do this. Skinny or die.” I’m such a failure. I have to do this. For me.


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#2631 Zerokcalcoffe

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 11:30 AM

in an odd way my mom saying "you're the skinniest person I know" was very triggering


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#2632 alnugmalok

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Posted 08 May 2021 - 04:32 PM

A person I met a few months ago and we have come pretty close said "really? you don't seem like it, you look pretty healthy" when I told him that I have ED



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Posted 09 May 2021 - 01:01 AM

OK so when I was 10 years old I got stabbed by a 15 year old. Dude tried to stab me in my side but I just got my arm down in time so it went into my arm. I'm at the hospital getting stiched up and the person doing it goes " oooh look you can see the fat in your arm" - I just got stabbed but cool, thanks

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Posted 10 May 2021 - 01:22 AM

My mom and I were talking once. We were talking about my sister, and how her PCOS and BED has caused her to gain a lot of weight. Well, I'm the one who thinks she has BED. We were just talking about how my grandma keeps commenting on my sisters body and my mom says something along the lines of "yeah, she needs to stop saying that because your sister is the one who would develop an ED from it" and I just....lost it inside. I have been struggling with an ED for literally 12 years. I've lost over 100lbs in a short time, and mom never ever said anything to me. 

 

It just made me feel like she doesn't ~see~ me. I felt really bummed.


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Posted 10 May 2021 - 01:57 AM

My friend randomly texted me the other day and said “I was never jealous of you for being thin and me being fat until yesterday. I wish my mental illness culminated to a thin body.”
I was very taken aback. She’s seen me through years of my ED. She has asked me in the past if I felt weird being her friend bc I’m thin and she isn’t. Her words, I certainly would not call myself thin. I wear a size 6 but I’m a little tall. Her comments just triggered me because it made me feel like if she is calling me thin then I am somewhat close to actually being thin so I need to amp up what I’m currently doing to lose weight so I can be thin again.


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#2636 FlowerWish

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Posted 10 May 2021 - 02:28 PM

My (at the time) boyfriend ... who knew me at my heaviest and at my lowest... told me at my lowest, "You're the hottest you've ever been." 

Now that I weigh so much more than my LW, I can't stop thinking about it... 
The same man is now my husband. I love and trust him.. but I still feel so hideous right now. :c


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Posted 11 May 2021 - 04:34 PM

In the same appointment my Dr. went from:

Officially diagnosing me with BED (This was the FIRST TIME I had ever sought help and admitted to anyone but mom and husband how bad things have gotten)

To making note that she wanted me on Wellbutrin for my depression in part because of my weight and its weight loss and appetite suppressing side effects.

Then to asking if I want a referral to the hospital's free weight loss clinic to help me learn how to lose weight "without extreme changes and binges."

Fuck you, lady. I know more about dieting than anyone I know. If knowledge was the answer then I am a fucking professor of DIET 101.
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