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#21 Sena

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 07:48 AM

The subject of weight came up among my friends and when I said mine they were like "No way! You look like you're 50 pounds lighter than that!" I took that as them trying to coddle and placate the disgusting hamplanet before them even though logically I know it means I really don't look like I am. :(


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#22 Desiree

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 07:53 AM

My great grandmother: "Wow you've gotten FAT!"


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Posted 02 March 2016 - 09:08 AM

My boyfriend is constantly talking about how fat he is and how gross he is and how we are going to start working out and eating healthy because he is so fat.

I'm over 100 lbs heavier than him. If he's so fat, then what kind of monster am I?
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Posted 02 March 2016 - 09:15 AM

My boyfriend said if I were smaller I wouldn't be so sexy. Obviously he meant it as a good thing but to me it just means I'm big. 


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#25 Wilted_Dandelions

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 12:52 PM

At work, my coworker asked me if I was pregnant again because I look like I did when I was newly pregnant with my now 3 month old. I told her no and she was like, "I guess you're just a little chubby then." I almost cried. She's tiny to begin with, so it made me feel like a giant. I'm having trouble losing the last 15 lbs of the 45 that I gained while pregnant. I felt fine about my 30 lb weight loss until she said something. :(
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#26 alessiaana

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 01:31 PM

My best friend would poke my stomach and say "you're fat."
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Posted 02 March 2016 - 01:36 PM

I've lost 25 pounds since the new year and my grandma keeps saying "you've done so good now you just need to lose more!"
Also yesterday I wore an old pair of jeans I can finally fit into and my husband kept complimenting how good I looked- like he wouldn't stop. Meant to be a compliment but it just triggered me to thinking that he wants me to look how I did when we first met (aka my LW)


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#28 HateMyself89

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 02:20 PM

My fiance told me during a discussion on weight (he loves me how I am but I am NOT happy) "you're not skinny, you're perfectly proportioned and sexy". I almost died. I smiled and told him I loved him otherwise he would feel guilty about the sobbing I've done since that moment in private.


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#29 allinony

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 03:12 PM

"You don't need to do that!" (when my friend found out about my bulimia) "You're not fat, maybe just a little overweight!"
I was not overweight at the time.
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#30 Capricious Capricorn

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 04:27 PM

My mom's boyfriend said "maybe you should join a gym" to me when I was 13/14 yr old and that summer I lost 25 lbs and my whole family talked about my weight behind my back calling. Me a rail and sickly. Then I gained 20 lbs and they started to say how "healthy" I looked or how I got my complexion back of my curves back. I'm 16 now and am really trying to lose 15 lbs this month.
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#31 Until-you-faint

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 05:23 PM

My uncle told me that I have a pretty face but guys don't like fat girls. So I should lose weight.
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#32 Madame-Mim

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 05:51 PM

I lent over the bed naked to unplug something and he said "woah look at that belly" . I cried and instead of taking it back he said "don't worry I love it. I don't cate what weight you are"
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#33 Madame-Mim

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 05:52 PM

Also my ex bf bought be a skipping role for my birthday.
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Posted 02 March 2016 - 05:52 PM

Rope*

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Posted 02 March 2016 - 07:13 PM

"Lose weight and I ll propose to you"
"Fat people don t succeed" from Dad
"You really should join a gym" today
After 2min Chatting with my ex who didnt see me for 1 year "did you gain or lost weight?"
Me : "hide me please I wanna talk on the phone in class" my skinny classmate "Me ? an elephant wanting to be hidden by a mouse Hahahahha"
My friend : "You re a walking ass"
...etc
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Posted 02 March 2016 - 08:25 PM

My uncle said this to me, knowing I had a hard recovery after an accident with meds that made me gain almost 20 kg in 1,5 year...

That's terrible


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Posted 02 March 2016 - 08:26 PM

"Lose weight and I ll propose to you"
"Fat people don t succeed" from Dad
"You really should join a gym" today
After 2min Chatting with my ex who didnt see me for 1 year "did you gain or lost weight?"
Me : "hide me please I wanna talk on the phone in class" my skinny classmate "Me ? an elephant wanting to be hidden by a mouse Hahahahha"
My friend : "You re a walking ass"
...etc

The "lose weight and I'll propose to you" one especially angered me. Wtf.


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#38 Help_Me_Lose_Ana

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Posted 03 March 2016 - 12:07 AM

When I visited my mom, granted I wore a size too small jeans cause i packed the wrong pair, but she was like "Youve gained so much weight, you need to watch it. stop eating so much!" and I know shes right but still. Or another time I hadnt eaten in three days and I reached for another slice of ham, cause she gave me one and herself like 7 and she was like " Stop eating so much! Youre gonna gain weight! I can already tell youve gained some." or she always calls me big butt, which I hate so much. It makes me want to cry. Or she calls me her chunky monkey. Like mom pls stop Im an adult now, i know im fat but dont try to turn my body into your joke. If i tell her it hurts my feelings she gets all offensive and starts crying and calling me rude and how I dont want her to be happy.


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Posted 03 March 2016 - 04:54 AM

telling my friend about purging almost daily a year ago and she said "oh that's no big deal! i skip a meal too sometimes" and it was such a smack in the face?? she was the first person i ever told, too. i felt so fake and as if i was overreacting and it made me relapse and... yikes.
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Posted 03 March 2016 - 05:00 AM

telling my friend about purging almost daily a year ago and she said "oh that's no big deal! i skip a meal too sometimes" and it was such a smack in the face?? she was the first person i ever told, too. i felt so fake and as if i was overreacting and it made me relapse and... yikes.

 

"Oh, your house burned down? Oh, that's no big deal! I accidentally caught a curtain on fire once too." - her, probably.

 

That's such an ignorant thing to say to someone. Does she even know what daily purging does to your body after enough time??


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