My boyfriend is constantly talking about how fat he is and how gross he is and how we are going to start working out and eating healthy because he is so fat.
I'm over 100 lbs heavier than him. If he's so fat, then what kind of monster am I?
Same here, and I told him it makes me feel like shit, and then he makes me feel worse for saying that to him by saying stuff like "am I not allowed to have any feelings?". I mean, I'm overweight (was obese until recently) and he is like 12% bf, all muscle. I understand that you can feel dissatisfied at any weight and he has some fat on his hips that bothers him, I get that. But I'm fat for real, it's not really the same thing.
When I was younger I had a lot of people tell me shit, and then I was like BMI 24-25 and had a lot of muscle, I wasn't fat then. But I believed growing up that I was overweight 'cause so many people told me shit like that all the time.
"You're a little chubby, like XX" - my friend when we were like 12. I didn't think the girl she was comparing me to was chubby, I just heard her calling me fat
"...because your family is bigger" - don't remember the context, but I just heard her call my family fat. thinking back I'm not completely sure that she actually meant that we were fatter, which is what I heard then, 'cause where all tall and big built (broad shoulders, wide hips, etc).
"What do you have here?!" - my dad grabbing my love handles. He's done this multiple times when I was a teenager even though I once threw a tantrum and screamed that he was an idiot and "do you want me to get an ED?!"
"you didn't lose 15 lbs! you just lost muscle weight!" - one of my coaches after summer when I was discussing what to eat after my diet
UGH. This is the shit I remember now.